I don't think it's designed for just the 'princess' type of girl，its personality is fully expressed through its form and color!"

Ava first discovered our product on social media, and after purchasing it through our website, she reached out to us. After adding our Whats App recommendation officer, she sent the following message:"When I first saw this product, I was really drawn to its design. It has the shape of a saddle, but also like a little boat — the lines are smooth and modern. What I particularly love is the color. It's this soft, unique pink, but it strangely exudes an independent and calm vibe — it's really something different. I don't think it's designed for just the 'princess' type of girl; its personality is fully expressed through its form and color!"

Part 1

I value my personal freedom, but I also care deeply about the emotional connections I share with others."

Journalist: Ava, thanks so much for taking the time to chat with us today! Your work is really eye-catching—so full of personality. How's your life and creative process going right now?

Ava: Hey, thank you! My life’s actually pretty free and full of uncertainty. As a freelancer, I don’t have a fixed schedule or location—I pretty much control my own time. Most of my days are spent in my studio, creating on my own, or attending exhibitions and creative events. Sometimes, I’ll spend an entire day at home just thinking about new ideas. While it’s fulfilling, there’s definitely loneliness, especially when I hit a creative block. It feels like inspiration is locked away, and the pressure can get intense.

Journalist: The uncertainty of freelancing can be a lot. Do you often hit creative blocks?

Ava: (laughs) Oh, absolutely! For me, creating is a form of release, but it also comes with a lot of pressure and anxiety, especially when the ideas just aren’t coming. It’s like… sometimes, opening a door to creativity feels amazing, but other times, it’s like being trapped in a room with no exit. Everyone thinks I’m this super independent, avant-garde woman, so they assume my ideas never dry up！

Journalist: I can imagine how tough it must be. How do you find balance, especially in such an independent lifestyle?

Ava: I have to stop and just be—to really feel the environment around me. Sometimes, I’ll just stay home, light some incense (I used to really hate incense, but now, I love it!), play some light music, or just spend time with my plants. Giving myself some blank space to not do anything allows me to reconnect with my inner peace and reset my creativity. I think “being alone” isn’t just a choice in my life; it’s a necessity in my work. Through solitude, I can really connect with myself and sense my thoughts and feelings more clearly.

Journalist: That’s fascinating! It sounds like solitude is a path to self-discovery. Do you have any special ways of reigniting your creativity during those quiet moments?

Ava: I’ll engage in non-creative activities like going to small art exhibitions, participating in creative workshops, or just walking outside and taking photos. I find that these activities help open up my mind, and sometimes, even the most unrelated things spark new creative ideas. The key is giving myself space to relax and not let outside pressures pull me in.

Journalist: It seems like those "downtime" moments are truly precious for you. As someone who values independence and freedom so much, you’ve also mentioned resisting traditional relationship structures. Do you think that attitude affect your creativity?

Ava: Absolutely. My resistance to labels, especially around marriage and relationships, really shapes my art. Society often expects women to fit into predefined boxes—like being “married” or “a mother”—and those labels can sometimes make us feel pressured to live up to certain expectations. But I believe everyone should have the right to choose their own lifestyle without needing to conform to these standards. This commitment to self-determination shows up in my art, and it’s what fuels my unique style. The freedom in my creative process and in my life makes me feel pure and unencumbered.

Journalist: So you’re not into being “labeled”? Does that mean you’re not keen on traditional roles like “wife” or “mother”?

Ava: (laughs) Yeah, I guess you could say that. Labels feel like constraints to me. I don’t like being boxed in by a set identity. The “wife” or “mother” labels come with societal expectations, and I don’t think life should be about choosing between two fixed options. I prefer living more flexibly, defining myself based on how I feel and what I’ve experienced, moving at my own pace.

Of course, I’m not saying those roles are bad. Many people find meaning in them, and I respect that. But for me, my identity is fluid. That fluidity is something I need, especially in my art and lifestyle. I can be a free artist who enjoys solitude and creation, and at the same time, I can experience different types of relationships and emotional needs. That open, adaptable mindset is what’s important to me.

Journalist: It’s clear that emotional fluidity plays a big role for you. But with this independent lifestyle, do you ever struggle with feelings of loneliness?

Ava: Oh, definitely. As much as I cherish the freedom, sometimes it gets lonely. Especially when there’s a lack of inspiration, that emptiness can feel hard to ignore. I’ve had passionate relationships in the past, but I realized what I need most is the freedom to live and create without feeling trapped. That loneliness, and my desire for freedom, is actually a driving force in my work.

Journalist: That makes a lot of sense. How do you reconnect with your emotions and avoid slipping into loneliness in such a solitary lifestyle?

Ava: For me, it’s about having a conversation with my body. When I’m alone, I pay more attention to my physical sensations—things like meditation, yoga, or just deep breathing. I’ve come to realize that the connection between mind and body is so important. These practices help me manage my emotions and release negative energy.

Journalist: That’s such a great self-care approach! Speaking of which, have you tried any new ways to take better care of yourself recently?

Ava: (laughs) Using your product, Riderdesire, is one of them! In the midst of all the creative pressure and the time I spend in my own world, I can easily neglect my body’s needs. Before I discovered this product, I had tried a few other massagers—some of which I found on some pretty sketchy websites! (laughs) But Riderdesire is different. When I first came across it, I was really drawn to its design. The lines, the colors, and even the feel of it—it’s not like a traditional adult toy at all. It actually feels more like a piece of art. The color is this soft pink, very gentle yet unique, breaking away from typical designs. Every time I use it, I feel like it’s breathing with me—it adapts to my body in a way that feels almost alive, not like a mechanical tool at all.

Part 2

"Emotional fluidity and my fear of losing independence shape my art, creating a unique style of vulnerability."

Journalist: That “breathing together” feeling sounds so cool! And I can totally see how the design matches your aesthetic. Do you think the experience of using it helps you relax and get back to that creative flow?

Ava: Exactly. You know, as an artist, every brushstroke, every line is crucial to me. Just like I’m sensitive to color and form, my body’s sensations are just as important. When I’m relaxed, I can enter that “flow” state more easily, and ideas just start to flow. So, this product isn’t just a tool for the body; it’s an artistic experience.

Journalist: It sounds like you really connect with it! Do you enjoy this experience on your own, or do you sometimes share it with friends?

Ava: (laughs) I mostly enjoy it on my own—it’s my private time. But if I ever share it, it would be a lot of fun! I have this one friend who loves trying new things, especially around self-care. I bet she’d shout “wow, wow, wow!” the second she got her hands on it! She’s super open-minded and would totally understand the deeper meaning behind the design.

Journalist: (laughs) I can already picture her reaction! I think I’d be pretty excited too. So, would you encourage the women around you to use products like this?

Ava: Absolutely! Every woman deserves to have a product that’s completely her own. When I say completely her own, I mean it. It helps women reconnect with their bodies. In a world where we’re always rushing around, most of us forget to listen to our own physical signals. We should pause, really tune in, and feel our bodies. The relaxation it brings is so important for releasing built-up stress. After using it, you feel a complete sense of balance, inside and out.

Journalist: It sounds like not only does it help with relaxation, but it also boosts confidence and joy from within! If you were to give it as a gift, who would you give it to?

Ava: Oh, it would totally depend on the person! If I were giving it to a close friend, someone who really values quality in life and has an eye for art, this would be the perfect gift. They’d be thrilled! I can already imagine their reaction—total “wow” moment! Honestly, I might even gift it to my best friend… you know, a special one! (laughs)

Journalist: (laughs) I can totally see it! Sounds like a perfect gift. 

Journalist: Ava， For someone as independent and creative as you, do you ever feel like there’s a tension between your personal freedom and the emotional connections you have with others?

Ava: Oh, all the time. It’s one of the biggest challenges, honestly. On one hand, I crave freedom—it’s like the air I breathe. But on the other hand, I also value deep, meaningful connections with people. The tricky part is, those two things don’t always align. Sometimes, being deeply connected to someone can feel like a weight, even if it’s unintentional. And I think for people like me—who cherish their individuality so much—there’s always this underlying fear of losing ourselves in relationships.

Journalist: That sounds like such a delicate balance to maintain. How do you navigate those moments when freedom and connection seem to clash?

Ava: I try to remind myself that relationships don’t have to mean losing freedom. They can be spaces for growth and support, as long as both sides respect each other’s boundaries. But I won’t lie—sometimes, I struggle. It’s especially hard when the other person doesn’t understand why I need so much alone time. To them, it might feel like I’m shutting them out, but for me, it’s about recharging and staying grounded in who I am. I think a lot of independent people feel this way. We love fiercely, but we also need to protect our inner world.

part 3

That tension—between wanting to connect and needing to stay free—creates this beautiful kind of friction

Journalist: That makes so much sense. It’s almost like you’re constantly walking a tightrope between independence and intimacy. Do you think this tension ever influences your art or creativity?

Ava: Definitely. In fact, I think it’s one of the biggest drivers of my work. That tension—between wanting to connect and needing to stay free—creates this beautiful kind of friction. It forces me to explore what it means to be vulnerable without losing myself. A lot of my art is about capturing that moment of contradiction, where you’re open and raw but still holding onto your identity. It’s messy, but it’s real.

Journalist: How did you deal with that emotional struggle?

Ava: I tried to stay honest. I once experienced this kind of confusion in a relationship with someone.I needed more space, not because I didn’t like him, but because maintaining my individuality is really important to me. At first, he didn’t completely understand, and he probably felt like I was pulling away. But we continued talking, and eventually, he started to understand my needs. It was a tough period, but it helped me learn to be more honest about my emotional needs and how to balance freedom with intimacy.

Journalist: That really takes courage. You mentioned the “space” element in your relationship—do you think that’s an important aspect of your emotional life?

Ava: Ava: Absolutely. I’ve found that I really need that “space” element in most of my relationships. For me, personal independence isn’t just a part of life—it’s an essential need. If that independence isn’t respected, I start to feel suffocated. The conflict in that relationship really made me realize that emotional depth doesn’t have to mean losing yourself. It’s more like a process of coexisting—we can find a balance while still honoring each other’s space. Every time I find myself again within my needed space, the relationship becomes healthier.

Journalist: That’s such a profound insight, Ava. The honesty and communication you mentioned really seem to be key in your emotional relationships. What do you see for your emotional future?

Ava: I think every relationship progresses uniquely. I don’t set fixed expectations or goals anymore. I just want to stay open-minded, continue exploring, and maintain my inner freedom. In future relationships, I’ll likely face more challenges, but I believe that real intimacy can only come from honesty, respect, and freedom.

Journalist: That’s such a mature perspective. Thank you for sharing such personal thoughts and stories with me, Ava. It really gives me a deeper understanding of your emotional world.

Ava: Thank you for your understanding! I’ve really enjoyed this conversation. Sharing my experiences with you has made me feel more real and understood.